Fasting purifies the body,devotion purifies the soul.उपवास शरीर को शुद्ध करता है,भक्ति आत्मा को शुद्ध करती है।"

Fasting purifies the body,devotion purifies the soul.उपवास शरीर को शुद्ध करता है,भक्ति आत्मा को शुद्ध करती है।"

Detailed Explanation

Human relationships, whether personal, social, or professional, usually operate on certain expectations, needs, and benefits. This doesn’t necessarily mean people are selfish—rather, it reflects how human behavior naturally works.

1. Relationships and Mutual Self-Interest

Most relationships are shaped by what each person gains from them.

This gain may not be material; it can be emotional, social, or psychological. For example:

Emotional support

Companionship

Respect

Security

Social acceptance

People invest time and effort where they feel valued, understood, or supported. This mutual benefit keeps relationships alive.

2. Why People Act in Their Own Interest

Human beings are wired for survival—emotionally and socially as much as physically.

So they often choose actions that:

Protect their mental peace

Fulfill their emotional needs

Improve their social position

Help them avoid guilt, conflict, or loss

This is not wrong; it is simply how most people function.

3. Selfless Love and True Sacrifice Are Rare

Love without expectation, or sacrifice without any personal benefit, is uncommon because it requires:

Deep inner strength

Emotional maturity

Empathy at a very high level

The ability to give without receiving

Only a few people possess this kind of purity of heart. Most people, even in close relationships, hold some expectations—attention, affection, respect, loyalty, or support.

4. The Practical Reality

Life teaches us that relationships don’t survive only on emotions; they require balance.

If one person keeps giving and the other keeps taking, the relationship becomes unhealthy.

If expectations grow too much, conflicts arise.

If both understand each other’s needs and limits, the bond grows stronger.

Thus, relationships are a delicate balance of giving and receiving, understanding and expecting, accepting and adjusting.

In Essence

People stay in relationships where their needs—emotional, psychological, or practical—are acknowledged. Selfless love happens, but rarely. Most successful relationships survive because both sides maintain a balance between what they give and what they receive.

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