अपने बच्चों की गतिविधियों पर नज़र रखें.जाने अनजाने बच्चे गलतियां करते हैं. उन्हें समझ नहीं होती है की क्या गलत और क्या सही है.भाई बहन आपस में झगड़ते हैं.पास पड़ोस के साथियों से लड़ाई हो जाती है.बड़े बच्चें स्कूल,कॉलेज के साथियों के साथ बुरी आदते सीखते है. डिजिटल युग है. मोबाइल गेम खेलने की आदत बच्चों को लगती जा रही है.इसका नशा,लत सबसे बुरी है.ग्रुप में भी खेलते है.जीतने का जुनून हद पार कर जाता है.इसे रोकना होगा,सुधारना होगा. समझाना,डांटाना नाजुक मुद्दा है.बच्चों को अपमानित ना करें.मार पीट ना करें. किसी के सामने अपमानित ना करें. यह नाजुक मुद्दा है.बच्चों की अच्छी बातों को सराहें.उनकी तारीफ करें.बातचीत के समय प्यार से उनकी गलतियों की तरफ इशारा करें.समझायें.फायदे और नुकसान बतायें. बच्चों को थोड़ा समय दें सोंचने का कि वह क्या गलती कर रहे हैं? कोई बुरा हादसा ना हो बच्चों के ऊपर अनावश्यक दबाव ना बनायें.यह ध्यान रखना होगा.प्यार,मुहब्बत से बच्चे आपकी बात समझ जायेंगें.आपका समझाने का तरीक़ा सहज, सौहार्दपूर्ण माहौल में होना चाहिए. Keep an eye on your children's activities. Children make mistakes knowingly or unknowingly. They don't understand what is right and wrong. Siblings quarrel among themselves. They get into fights with their neighbors. Older children learn bad habits from their school and college mates. This is the digital age. Children are getting addicted to mobile games. Their addiction is the worst. They even play in groups. The obsession to win crosses all limits. This must be stopped. They must be explained. Explaining and scolding is a delicate matter. Do not humiliate children. Do not beat them. Do not humiliate them in front of anyone. This is a delicate matter. Appreciate the good qualities of children. Praise them. During conversations, lovingly point out their mistakes. Explain to them. Explain the advantages and disadvantages. Give some time to the children to think about what mistake they are doing? Do not put unnecessary pressure on the children so that no bad accident happens. This has to be kept in mind. Children will understand your point with love and affection. Your way of understanding should be in a comfortable and cordial environment. Monitor your children's

अपने बच्चों की गतिविधियों पर नज़र रखें.जाने अनजाने बच्चे गलतियां करते हैं. उन्हें समझ नहीं होती है की क्या गलत और क्या सही है.भाई बहन आपस में झगड़ते हैं. पास पड़ोस के साथियों से लड़ाई हो जाती है. बड़े बच्चें स्कूल,कॉलेज के साथियों के साथ बुरी आदते सीखते है.                                                       डिजिटल युग है. मोबाइल गेम खेलने की आदत बच्चों को लगती जा रही है.इसका नशा,लत सबसे बुरी है.ग्रुप में भी खेलते है.जीतने का जुनून हद पार कर जाता है.इसे रोकना होगा.सुधारना होगा.                               समझाना,डांटाना नाजुक मुद्दा है.बच्चों को अपमानित ना करें.मार पीट ना करें. किसी के सामने अपमानित ना करें. यह नाजुक मुद्दा है.बच्चों की अच्छी बातों को सराहें.उनकी तारीफ करें.बातचीत के समय प्यार से उनकी गलतियों की तरफ इशारा करें.समझायें.फायदे और नुकसान बतायें. बच्चों को थोड़ा समय दें सोंचने का कि वह क्या गलती कर रहे हैं?                                                             कोई बुरा हादसा ना हो बच्चों के ऊपर अनावश्यक दबाव ना बनायें.यह ध्यान रखना होगा.प्यार,मुहब्बत से बच्चे आपकी बात समझ जायेंगें.आपका समझाने का तरीक़ा सहज, सौहार्दपूर्ण माहौल में होना चाहिए.  

Keep an eye on your children's activities. Children make mistakes knowingly or unknowingly. They don't understand what is right and wrong. Siblings quarrel among themselves. They get into fights with their neighbors. Older children learn bad habits from their school and college mates. This is the digital age. Children are getting addicted to mobile games. Their addiction is the worst. They even play in groups. The obsession to win crosses all limits. This must be stopped. They must be explained. Explaining and scolding is a delicate matter. Do not humiliate children. Do not beat them. Do not humiliate them in front of anyone. This is a delicate matter. Appreciate the good qualities of children. Praise them. During conversations, lovingly point out their mistakes. Explain to them. Explain the advantages and disadvantages.  Give some time to the children to think about what mistake they are doing? Do not put unnecessary pressure on the children so that no bad accident happens. This has to be kept in mind. Children will understand your point with love and affection. Your way of understanding should be in a comfortable and cordial environment. 

Monitor Your Children with Love, Awareness, and Responsibility.

Children are innocent by nature. They make mistakes—sometimes knowingly, sometimes unknowingly—because their understanding of right and wrong is still developing. As parents, guardians, or elders, it becomes our responsibility to guide them with patience, empathy, and wisdom.

1. Understand Children’s Behavior

Siblings often quarrel among themselves. Small disagreements can turn into fights with neighbors or classmates. Older children and teenagers are even more vulnerable because they learn habits—both good and bad—from their friends at school, tuition centers, or colleges. Their minds are impressionable, and they may not recognize the long-term consequences of certain behaviors.

2. The Digital Age Challenge

This is a fast-paced digital era. Children today are growing up with mobile phones, tablets, and internet access.

Many are becoming addicted to mobile games.

Some play for hours without rest.

Group gaming has increased competitiveness to dangerous levels.

The obsession with winning can lead to anger, stress, and even aggressive behavior.

Mobile addiction affects studies, sleep, mental peace, and physical health. If not controlled timely, it becomes harmful.

3. Correcting Children is a Delicate Matter

Guiding children is not about strictness alone; it is about balance.

Do not humiliate children.

Do not beat them or scold them harshly.

Do not insult them in front of others.

Humiliation weakens confidence and creates fear, resentment, or rebellion.

Instead:

4. Use Positive Encouragement

Appreciate their good qualities.

Praise them when they do something right.

Encourage their talents.

Notice their efforts, not only their mistakes.

Positive reinforcement builds trust and motivates children to improve.

5. Correct Mistakes with Love

When they make mistakes, talk to them privately and lovingly.

Point out what went wrong.

Explain why it is wrong.

Help them understand both the advantages of good behavior and the disadvantages of wrong actions.

Give them time to think and reflect.

Children respond better when they feel respected and understood.

6. Avoid Unnecessary Pressure

Do not put extreme expectations or emotional pressure on children.

Too much stress can lead to depression, fear, anxiety, and in extreme cases, tragic accidents or self-harm.

Parents must always be alert to this risk.

7. Create a Comfortable and Trusting Environment

Children listen more openly when:

The home atmosphere is cordial, peaceful, and friendly.

Parents speak with warmth and patience.

Children feel safe expressing their thoughts without fear of punishment.

A loving environment builds strong emotional bonds.

8. Continuous Monitoring and Guidance

Monitoring your children does not mean spying on them. It means:

Observing their behavior

Knowing their friends

Tracking their online activities

Guiding them step-by-step

Being present in their lives

Children must feel that parents care for them, not control them.

In short:

Children understand and accept guidance better when it is given with affection, respect, and patience. Your presence, communication, and emotional support shape their future. Always keep a gentle watch over them and guide them with love.

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